offensive isn't it? this will definitely start an argument.
that is the topic for today, arguments.
Democracy! is a product of arguments, how can this be??
Democracy is the basic system for most of the countries in the world, and the effectiveness level is without a doubt.
arguments is considered a taboo in the the malaysian society, it is considered disrespectful and rude to argue with an elder or somebody that we hold a high sense of respect towards them like bosses and teachers. those who dare enough to argue the authority(teachers, bosses,leaders) will likely to be seen as an elitist(a person of high social standings) or the kind of people who thinks they are better than those around them(malaysian view).
Arguments are the best of methods to solve or improvise anything! Two brains are always better than one! argument don't exist if it only involve a single person. Unless a person have a doubt within them.
In doubt, we , humans , will start to use all the knowledge that we have inside our brain and we decide which one will benefit us or more logical than the other to produce an answer, this method is called argument! we constantly argue with our self to produce the best answer for anything!
the differences between self argument with people involved in arguments is that it hold different opinions and view on the subject.
Arguments tend to lead to extreme result, extremely good solution or they end up in a bad fight which can worsen into a physical one.
The outcome can be controlled, how? kill your ego's and emotion! be open minded and remain focus on the objective of the argument.
when you can control that, it will end up as a healthy argument providing you with solution's to your problem. this is the main problem with malaysians! they tend to avoid arguements! because they can't control it! progress is achieve much faster if arguements were properly carried out. I can't blame directly to the malaysian community, i blame the "ketuanan system(daulat)" between the people with the sultan. Those who disobey the sultan is bound to get the "tulah" . there are still people who believe in such thing, we are all human. non is given more unless god permit it.
My suggestions is that, the malaysian people especially the youngs should be trained to control their emotion, to act more professional, to make them ready for any kind of arguments. And the taboos have to stop, the goverment should be more open minded on certain things in education like sex education. Sometimes what the people want is not best for them. Its up to the politician to decide what is best for them sometimes, if it doesnt benefit the people, maybe, the politicians are not good enough!